One Sane Winter Coffee

There is nothing much preferably done in winter than waking up between 11 to 12 AM to a warm cup of coffee without thinking it as one of the greatest guilty pleasures in life. 

To be sorry is a very humble thing, but I wonder if it's at all necessary.

To never feel sorry or to never having to say sorry might very well be a good challenge to take on as a new year resolution, which comes soon enough to be pressure. It might not be as hard if you just hear it once, but to never have to say "sorry" requires you to be always right and to be always right means not more than to never do wrong and there are two ways to never do wrong in life:

1. To behave just exactly the way society expects you to behave

2. To never regret every little detail that you decide to do

The latest one has somehow made its way to be "in" nowadays, mostly in the West. I personally think that this is a beautiful way to live the life. Nevertheless, a tricky one because we tend to forget the reason or the ground thinking which gives our flow a direction or in a bigger picture: The Great Meaning. It is very unfortunate that there is only a very fine line between the state where we understand The Great Meaning and the state where we think we understand it; and that is why I call this option tricky. By the way, while writing this, I must think of a quote from Sadhguru: "even if you do something wrong, be happy about it". What a beautiful way of thinking with a 20% touch of danger.

Come thinking about it, the first option might be the safest way to live – not only your life – but also the lives of the others. It might be easy if we were all born in the way just the society functions. But we all happen to have souls and various longings and thus, to adapt your outer and inner self into the standards you are not, requires not more than your own sanity.

But, sanity is vital.

Anyone ever dare to trade his sanity for anything, might as well consider to lose himself, or his life. 

After all, we never had that many options.